Hello Janis,
I feel for you. I know more than a little about knees knocking, about forgetting everything about technique (just supposing that I do have a smattering of technique). But what about lips trembling? What about forgetting the words? What about missing an entrance? I didn't read about those things happening to you; and if they didn't, you do have something to be more than happy about. On the contrary, you admit that the bride and groom cried during your song! Now this, to me, seems quite an accomplishment. Not only was your pronunciation extremely good, obviously, but your interpretation had to be very moving too : the bride and groom, I imagine, chose that song because they already knew and loved it; and if they knew the words already, I just can't believe that it's only the words that made them cry -- it had to be your interpretation of the words and the music, however imperfect it sounded to you. A song I love might make me cry, but only if I were moved by the interpretation.
It's certainly a good thing that you want to do better, because it's the way to improve. But I think you should be happy that you were able to do as well as you did -- and that you created a special, wonderful moment for the bride and groom, which is really the best that could be hoped for. Think of it, that was the first time you sang as a soloist, and you made people cry!
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